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does the beauty queen feel comfortable to let go of the king “with ease”. Most of the men and women we meet would want to hold onto their respective girlfriend/boyfriend.
What defines neediness.
In the book ” no more mr nice guy” , the author describes “nice guy” ( aka the ” needy one” in different communities)
* the one who is willing to impress the other person at the risk of loosing one’s individuality
* the one who has issues with completing a task . Someone who takes up a task and stops it in the half way and does the same with every other task
* the one who isnt taking steps to create a good life for them
etc
if you observe the above points, the author is basically talking about someone who is unable to take proper steps to create a good life for them and someone who is unable to be kind towards their own self.
now, Why is the person not able to create a good life, why is the person not kind with their ownself – the news is , not many are “taught or encouraged” to create a happy or healthy life .
Sometime, people realise that impressing is taxing and value freedom as they grow up and get exposed to different situations. Sometimes, people start taking care of their “body and mind ” once they realise the beauty that it can add to their everyday life .
Someone who valued freedom, someone who valued health, someone who valued honesty etc, might reflect the same in their conversations .
As one realises more of what they value and as they take steps to inculcate these values in their life, their way of responding to events/situation changes.
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